But I wanted to take this because it’s a juicy topic for conversation. In short, no, you’re not being too materialistic if you pass up on THIS man. But you revealed your blind spot when you stick with the illusion that a man must make as much or more money than you do. (The oft-debated pay gap doesn’t take away from that fact) And if we are equal, then we should date equally, no? Men choose women based on how those women make them feel.
Two hours later, maybe, he might be ready to spend some time with you.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Besides, I will most likely drive to see the guy anyhow if necessary. You cannot ride a bike to everything unless you leave REALLY EARLY. It is not that the car is what I am after; it is just that in this area if someone doesn't have a car, they are stuck.
Some forums can only be seen by registered members. A motorcycle would work, but that was not a choice.
Yes, although I would prefer if the guy did have a car.
Southern US Cities are very spread out so having a car is necessary.